I Am Illegal Immigrant And My Husband Is Us Citizen I Have Been Married In Brazil For 4y. And 2 Y. Nj???
14. Feb, 2010 
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He is U.S citizen. I married him after he got his US citizen and since that the marriage has been awful. He desrespect me, he abuse me once. I don’t love him anymore, I told him that I want to divorce. I am afraid he tread me. I never did nothing wrong in the country I am a 24 year old woman. I am happy here but not married. He probably won’t accept the divorce. I am afraid. what the damages he can cause to me? I have tax number id. He add me to pay taxes, but i am household, not make money. He gets money from adding me in his taxes. I have credit in the country i have credit cards and I add him in my accounts. He add me also in his bank account. Please tell me what to do. We don’t have any properties, or savings, only debits. Unfortunality most of my credit cards he is using to his own personal expenses and is in my name. can you help me figure out to get out of this marriage with no harm at all. ?????????????????
Go to safenest.com and visit one close to u to educate yourself about your rights. If u have being abused u can filed a divorce with battered espouse and can be legally in the country. Form I-751 if I recall. Make police reports of all verbal and physical abuse. I have being to court because of my espouse too. The judge did not considered the threats (emails, voice mail, text message) just police reports. The more u have the better. Take your name out the credit cards and make a post nuptial sayng you are responsible only for your expenses not his. he will tray to revenge and ruin your credit for good so u have to depend on him. U certainly did not came here to suffer like that right? get yourself a better one, at list someone willing to get marry for sure and not take financial advantage of you!!
Are you illegally in the U.K. or the U.S.? If you’re here in the U.S., you could go to the local Legal Services office. Look it up in the phone book, they’ll handle the divorce for you for free or almost free. However, you also need to get your immigration status fixed (i.e. become legal) otherwise, you may have real problems accessing some of the services you probably need. Good luck.